NC newlywed on husband’s death: ‘God still did his job, he took his son to be with him’


CONCORD, N.C. (WBTV) – Days ago, Araebia Barnhardt kissed her new husband goodbye as he headed off to work. Now, she’s preparing for his funeral.

Monday morning, 29-year-old Stephen Barnhardt was driving on Branchview Drive in Concord when police say an SUV crossed the center line, hitting his convertible head on.

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The driver of the SUV, Catherine Ivey, was pronounced dead at the scene, but Barnhardt was rushed to the hospital.

“I got the call and I just immediately knew… She said, ‘are you Araebia Barnhardt?’ And I said, ‘where’s my husband? What happened to him?'” Araebia told WBTV.

When Araebia got to the hospital, she said she looked down at her husband, who was just a shadow of himself.

“It just wasn’t my husband. The swelling and everything. I was like, God, don’t do this, please. I just got him,” Araebia said.

The couple’s romance was a whirlwind, lasting less than two months before Stephen and Araebia married this past June.

“God was like, that’s your husband. And I was like, no it’s not,” Araebia said.

Araebia says they just knew they were meant to be together.

“There’s a song, ‘I never knew love like this before.’ I’ve never known love like Stephen,” Araebia said

That deep love and an even deeper faith are what Araebia clung to in Stephen’s hospital room, hoping her desperate prayers would be answered.

“I didn’t think it would end the way it did. I thought he would come back,” Araebia said. “But I think inside my heart I knew he was no longer there.”

Stephen died on Tuesday.

“When they say tomorrow’s not promised, you just sometimes don’t think it’s you. Tomorrow is not promised. And when Stephen left and I said, baby I love you so much, I didn’t know that was the last time I was going to say that,” Araebia said.

Traveling life’s road without Stephen is not what Araebia wanted nor expected. But the new bride and even newer widow refuses to question the one she believes drew the map.

“God still did his job, because he took his son to be with him. And sometimes we think that’s not the job, because we want them with us, but he did his job,” Araebia said.

Araebia is now a single mother to six children, who she says Stephen loved like his own.

A fund has been set up to help the family with funeral expenses. You can donate here.

A celebration of Stephen’s life will be held on Friday at Fire Church in Concord.

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